So, I’m making myself a mental note: If I ever have an opportunity to spoon a woman who isn’t my significant other… DON’T because I’d probably end up fondling her without my realizing it.

Reader’s Comment: “Do you ever spoon with your daughter? My son crawls into my bed all the time in the middle of the night, but I have never, ever, nor would ever, mistake him for my husband. I think Ted wanted some, got rejected, was going to ignore it, Ghandia brought it up (HARD TO DO) he eased out of it, never accepting that he did anything wrong except confuse her with his wife. Then he pseudo denied it, said he didn’t deny it, said he was not even attracted to her (RED FLAG, RED FLAG).

Had Ted said, Sorry Ghandia, I thought you were lonely like I was, etc., etc., I am attracted to you and thought you felt the same etc. It would be the end of the issue.”

As I replayed Ted and Ghandia’s earlier conversation, Ted seemed entirely sincere. Sincere to the point of repeatedly apologizing for causing her to remember being raped. Ghandia just admitted that she embellished her story, “I was a little hard on him in retelling the story.”

What I found interesting during their initial conversation was how Ghandia didn’t really listen to what Ted was saying. Before he finished several sentences, she cut him off and continued with her train of thought, continued her sentence as though Ted said absolutely nothing.

Scroll back up and read their conversation again. You’ll see what I mean. Knowing this, it’s not hard to believe that Ghandia later found his apology disingenuous – she didn’t really hear it.

And so, with Ghandia now trying very hard to alienate the women against Ted, the plot thickens.